docs: ADR-0023 + demo note + backlog sync for the observability backplane (refs #122)

ADR-0023 records the Grafana-native stack (Tempo, no collector, config baked into
images); demo-script and BACKLOG describe S-16a and the S-16 split.

refs #122

docs/demo-script.md

@@ -5,6 +5,31 @@ copy-pasteable walkthrough against a local `make up` stack.
 
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+## S-16a — observability backplane: Tempo + Prometheus + Grafana (#122, ADR-0023)
+
+**Outcome:** the compose stack now includes a Grafana-native observability backplane — **Tempo** (OTLP
+trace ingest on 4317/4318), **Prometheus**, and **Grafana** with both datasources auto-provisioned.
+Nothing is instrumented yet (traces land in S-16b, metrics + dashboards in S-16c); this slice stands the
+backplane up and proves Grafana can reach both datasources. Config is baked into small built images
+(`infra/observability/`) — no collector, no config-volume seeding.
+
+```bash
+# 1. Bring the stack up, then assert the backplane is live (Grafana healthy + Tempo/Prometheus
+#    datasources reachable through Grafana). This is a CI verify-stack step.
+make up
+make verify-observability        # → ✓ Grafana healthy  ✓ Prometheus reachable  ✓ Tempo reachable
+
+# 2. Or just the backplane, no full stack needed (no external egress):
+docker compose -f infra/docker-compose.yml up -d --build tempo prometheus grafana
+open http://localhost:3000        # Grafana (admin/admin) → Connections → Data sources: Prometheus + Tempo
+open http://localhost:9090        # Prometheus
+```
+
+**The path:** services will export OTLP → **Tempo:4317** and expose `/metrics` ← **Prometheus** scrapes;
+**Grafana** (:3000) reads both via provisioned datasources with fixed uids `tempo` / `prometheus`.
+
+---
+
 ## S-17 — herregistratie reminder sweep on a Quartz cron (#18, ADR-0022)
 
 **Outcome:** an inscription (INGESCHREVEN) now carries the moment it was entered in the register, from