feat(#78): one citizen reference across self-service and the openbaar register (#79)

## What & why

Before this change the self-service confirmation and the openbaar register showed **different** identifiers, so a citizen could not look their registration back up (#78). Now both surface the same **reference**:

- **domain → ACL (write):** the domain `registrationId` is set as the zaak's `identificatie` on `POST /zaken`.
- **event-subscriber → ACL (read):** the subscriber reads the zaak's `identificatie` back through the ACL (§8.1 — only the ACL talks to ZGW) via a new `POST /zaken/reference`, and stores it on the projection row **and** the `processed_notifications` replay log.
- **BFF + openbaar:** the public view exposes `id/status/reference` (never bsn/naam) and searches by id or reference; the register's "Referentie" column shows the reference.

Storing the reference in the replay log keeps ADR-0008's **rebuild-is-log-only** invariant intact — `/admin/rebuild` reproduces the reference without re-reading the ACL.

Decision recorded in **ADR-0012**.

## Definition of Done

- [x] Linked issue: #78
- [x] Tests written first; red → green per layer
- [x] Unit + acceptance green (`make unit`): domain 49, acl 27, bff 20, event-subscriber 19, acceptance 7
- [x] Frontend lint + test green (`nx run-many -t lint test`)
- [x] Mutation ≥ break(90): acl 100%, event-subscriber 100%, bff 100%, domain 98.41% (pre-existing FlowableWorkflowClient baseline, untouched)
- [x] e2e extended: confirmation reference == register reference
- [x] openapi.json + api-client regenerated (drift guard green)
- [x] ADR-0012 added; demo-script note appended
- [x] `Acl__BaseUrl` wired for the subscriber in compose

closes #78

Reviewed-on: #79

services/bff/Bff.Tests/OpenbaarEndpointTests.cs

@@ -10,7 +10,7 @@ public class OpenbaarEndpointTests
     public async Task Serves_public_safe_rows_anonymously()
     {
         using var factory = new BffFactory();
-        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("abc-111", "INGEDIEND", "123456782", "Jan"));
+        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("abc-111", "INGEDIEND", "REG-abc", "123456782", "Jan"));
 
         // No Authorization header — the openbaar register is a public lookup (ADR-0010/S-09).
         var response = await factory.CreateClient().GetAsync("/openbaar/register");
@@ -19,7 +19,9 @@ public class OpenbaarEndpointTests
         var body = await response.Content.ReadAsStringAsync();
         Assert.Contains("abc-111", body);
         Assert.Contains("INGEDIEND", body);
-        // The bsn must never appear in a public response.
+        // The public reference is surfaced (matches the submit confirmation, #78)...
+        Assert.Contains("REG-abc", body);
+        // ...but the bsn must never appear in a public response.
         Assert.DoesNotContain("123456782", body);
     }
 
@@ -27,8 +29,8 @@ public class OpenbaarEndpointTests
     public async Task Filters_by_the_query_parameter()
     {
         using var factory = new BffFactory();
-        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("abc-111", "INGEDIEND", null, null));
-        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("def-222", "INGEDIEND", null, null));
+        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("abc-111", "INGEDIEND", "REG-abc", null, null));
+        factory.Projection.Entries.Add(new ProjectionEntry("def-222", "INGEDIEND", "REG-def", null, null));
 
         var rows = await factory.CreateClient()
             .GetFromJsonAsync<List<OpenbaarEntry>>("/openbaar/register?q=abc");